Monday, January 11, 2010
Why Women Want What's Off Limits
Have you ever wondered why it's so hard to get women to give you the time of day when you're single, but once you're in a great relationship with a good woman, you suddenly get an abnormally high number of compliments, giggles and increased attention from attractive women?
It's no secret that single women are drawn to a man in a relationship. It’s fascinating, but also very frustrating and unfair for the newly tied-down man. After hearing the countless tired pick-up lines and being played too many times by all the wrong, commitment phobic single men, many women see taken men as being "safe" and having desirable qualities, namely, being successful, intelligent and charming. Women love a challenge--and since taken men are tougher to get, luring you away from your good relationship gives them bragging rights.
Because an attached man has demonstrated his ability to commit, in some ways his qualities have already been ‘pre-screened' by other women. The simple fact that you make the woman on your arm happy attracts the buzz of many other women and makes them all want to steal you away from her.
Another reason why some women can't just let a taken man go is because just like a lot of men, many women crave sex. As a result, when some women meet a man that they have an undeniable sexual attraction to, they rush forward and pounce without thinking about the repercussions. Remember, women want what other women have, and the more out of reach you are, the more appealing you are to them.
Although it may seem that your success with one woman has made you successful with all women, if you're lucky enough to find a good woman who wants to be by your side, ruining a good relationship and throwing it all away for one night of pleasure with a woman who showed no interest when you were still on the market isn't very smart.