The Door Test

When meeting new women, using the "Door Test" is a brilliant exercise to judge their relative selfishness. The test is very simple-just pull up right where she lives and lock both doors. Then get out of the vehicle. Bring her over to the vehicle and open the passenger door for her, let her get in and close the door. Then slowly walk around the back of the car and look through the rear window and wait for truth to emerge.

There's no subjectivity with the door test. The Door Test is simply on a Pass/Fail, Keep/Dump basis. If she opens the door, she's a keeper. One or even two failures on her part might be understandable, but any more than that indicates her selfishness and a certain lack of empathy and you need to dump her fast.

Top 10: Ways to Make Her Feel Special

The majority of women have a need to feel special and cared for, and nothing can impress a woman more than a guy who can make her feel special and treat her like the ultimate queen.



Each guy has his own special way to make his woman feel special but there are certain techniques which work on almost all women, all the time. Here are 10 ways to show her what she means to you.



1. Give her a back rub or foot massage sometimes.





2. Look at her and tell her how beautiful she is to you.





3. Fix something around the house. A handyman is very sexy.





4. Listen to her, even when she's just rambling a bit and never make her feel down.





5. Give her true praise where she deserves it.





6. Send her love songs, cards and some cute love letters just because.





7. Do not act like all you are interested in is sex.





8. Be supportive and let her know that no matter what, you will be there for her.





9. Remember important dates like birthdays, anniversaries and other milestones. These are all opportunities to show her how special she is to you.





10. Remember what she likes and dislikes. She will be very impressed that you have been paying attention.

Keeping Her Satisfied In Bed

No man wants to be known as a boring lover. In order to prevent that, here's some things not to do in bed if you want your woman to remain stimulated and satisfied with you.

1. Don't be predictable

If you've been together for a while, this can definitely be a problem. Part of the reason why things were so hot between you and your woman when you first got together was because you didn't know what to expect. If you've been together for a while and want to maintain the same similar level of excitement with your woman as you did when you first got together, you have to keep it fresh. Master the art of foreplay and avoid the same old grunting or repeating certain words. Telling her that what she's doing feels amazing, that she looks hot, or what you'd like to do to her or have her do to you can also be a turn-on for many women.

2. Don't ask for permission to have sex.

A good lover can do something as simple as give a woman an intense look or use a certain touch to let her know he's in the mood and turn her on without ever having to ask permission. Most women don't find a man who asks for permission very sexy and see it as a "rookie" move.

3. Don't always have sex in the same location

Use your imagination and make simple changes in the locations where you have sex. The possibilities are endless. Try the shower, the kitchen, the living room, the car, etc...

4. Being afraid to experiment

Talk about what turns you on with your woman. Trying some new positions or engaging in role playing can make for better intimacy and keep you both turned on and spice things up in the bedroom. Try new things that you'll both enjoy and never let your sexual encounters become routine to the point where she can anticipate your every move and never underestimate the importance of foreplay for a woman.

5. Not going the extra mile

If you want to prevent her from ever being bored with you sexually, you must put in some effort every once in a while. You have to be romantic. Leave her love notes describing what she should slip into or out of while she awaits for you to come home. You can also seduce her by trying things like making a romantic dinner for two and playing some music to get her in the mood, and giving her sensual baths. Make it about pleasing her next time and she may just do something to please you in return.

5 Unromantic Gifts for Women

Men make buying gifts for women very difficult by forgetting everything they know about their partners, ignoring price tags, and not using common sense. While bad gifts can always be returned, you cannot take back the confused look on her face or her feeling disappointment. This feeling could be avoided if men would just stop and think. Here are 5 of the least romantic gifts you could buy a woman.


1. Tools

Never buy tools as a gift for a woman. This includes anything used for manual labor., e.g, vacuum cleaners, cooking utensils, gardening tools or anything that will involve her doing work. It doesn't matter if she always tells you that she needs these items, tools are never romantic. Remember, if it's something your best friend would find awesome, put it back.


2. Adult Films

Adult films are not something women want to see constantly, and they're definitely not something she wants to keep in her movie collection on the shelf.

3. Lingerie

Men and women are miles apart in the lingerie-buying department. When buying lingerie for your woman, remember that most ladies want sexy yet practical while men head straight for the hooker department. If you're not sure about how to pick out romantic, tasteful items for the lady in your life, save the lingerie for a shopping trip together and you can be there when she tries it on.

4. Pets

Pets are incredibly cute gift; however, they are also a huge responsibility, especially when you think about all the work a pet entails along with the added bills -- veterinarian, food, toys, and a ton of other things that might stretch her wallet and not be very romantic.

5. Gift Certificates

Gift certificates are definitely one of the least romantic gifts you can give a woman. A gift certificate is a great way to tell her: “I don't know anything about you, so here; go buy yourself something from a store." Don't let your girlfriend think that you only spent five minutes on her gift.

5 Things Women Are Insecure About

When it comes to dating, most women have a few insecurities and they tend to worry about very different things than men. Your actions can make a big difference on how secure she'll feel when she's with you. Here are 5 things women worry about when it comes to dating or being in a relationship.


1. She thinks you might not call her after a date
The first step to building a woman's trust is to following through with what you promise her. So if you say you are going to call her on Thursday, call her Thursday. If you say Friday, do it. If that's not your style, though, or you'd like to keep a little mystery, don't be definite about when you'll be calling. It's better than breaking a promise and at least she won't be waiting by the phone on a certain day.


2. She thinks you just want to have sex with her
It's a hard line to walk: If you make a move too soon, she'll think that's all you want. If you wait too long, she'll think you're just interested in her friendship. So the best way to work this is to just be sincere. If you are genuinely interested in pursuing a relationship with her, let her know. From there, she'll give you the signals to let you know when she's ready to get romantic with you.


3. She thinks you're dating other women
As long as you are honest about it, casually dating more than one woman at the same time is perfectly acceptable-- just don't lie about it. Keep in mind that once you both become intimate or the relationship turns serious, she might assume you are her's exclusively.


4. She thinks you're not that interested
At times, even the most confident woman sometimes needs a little reassurance that you're interested in her and that she still has it. You could let her know how special she is to you by complimenting her or sending her flowers. Find ways to make your woman feel special through a romantic gesture like calling her in the middle of the day for no reason at all. If you both have been in a relationship for a while, you need to work extra hard to reassure her that you still find her attractive. Flirting with other women in front of her can also make her feel insecure. Remember, when you're with her, devote all your attention to her.


5. She thinks you're cheating on her
If you haven't given her a reason to feel that you're cheating on her and she continues to accuse you of it, discuss the issue with her and let her know that you are committed and have no intention of straying. Believe it or not, lots of women have a lot of performance anxiety in the bedroom. If you're sex life is going well be sure to let her know it. If not, however, be sure to address the issue in the most sensitive manner possible.

Yes, the world of dating is harsh. But if you genuinely care about her, with a little foresight and sincerity, you can make her feel more secure about your relationship and about herself and boost her ego.

5 Ways To Increase Her Desire For You

So you've finally found a woman who really gets your juices flowing and gets you hot at the mere sight of her, but how do you increase her desire for you and keep her out of the arms of other men who may have better relationship skills than you do? Here are 5 ways to increase her desire to be with you.


1. Maintain a confident attitude
As you're trying to keep the attraction flowing in your relationship, remember to maintain a confident attitude. Women love confidence in a man and displaying a confident self-image will boost her attraction to you.


2. Make her feel special
Women love to be showered with attention and need to feel wanted. So if you'd like her to stay around for a while, make sure she knows that she still turns you on by charming her and giving her genuine compliments. Make her feel special and you'll keep her desire burning hot for you.


3. Look your best
When you first start dating a woman, you try very hard to impress her; however, after a while, many men began feeling too comfortable and begin slacking. Women are obsessed with clothing and their own appearance and will quickly switch off their sex drive if you start looking sloppy, so keep yourself up, don't get complacent about your hygiene and appearance.


4. Be a challenge to her
Your attitude should be that you're the catch, and you're doing her a favor by allowing her into your life. Being a challenge to women is a good thing, so learn to make yourself less available and more unpredictable. Keep contact with other single women and make lots of female friends. If she knows that you have options and that she might lose you at any time, her desire will be increased and she will work harder to make sure you don't get away.


5. Don't smother her
Last but not least, don't allow yourself to become a clingy, approval-seeking doormat who calls her numerous times a day and constantly showers her with gifts. If you smother her and act insecure, she could start feeling trapped and leave. Remember, insecurity is not attractive to women at all.

Getting Dating Advice From Women

When women give you dating advice, they try to help you with the best of intentions. The only problem with following women's advice is that sometimes their minds are as confusing to them as they are to you.

Although women can provide you a detailed map of the female mind, what some want and what they say they want not quite different and confusing. There are times when a woman's ideal of what she wants in a man more often than not doesn't match the type of man she falls for when she's presented with real-life choices. For example, most women will tell you "we're looking for nice guys", but when it comes to their basic instincts, they’re really attracted to a man who is somewhat arrogant and mysterious. That's why women date jerks.

Some women will also tell you to just "be yourself", but let's be serious--no one is their actual self when they first meet someone they're attracted to. Most women try to put out the most beautiful versions of themselves when they're on the prowl, and they expect the same from you. Women do want to get to know the real you, but only to a certain extent at first.

Don't completely abandon hope when it comes to seeking help from the women. Making female friends is a good thing, and dating advice from women can have its benefits-- just be aware of your sources.