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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288698340935124604.post-20496759036942422052013-07-02T14:53:00.000-07:002013-10-14T20:25:12.555-07:00Top 10: Signs You're Husband Material<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-pKAOIOVxQBQ/UdCGM_4Vi1I/AAAAAAAAI_0/ZjUhLoEr2yg/s500/qualities-good-husband.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="266" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-pKAOIOVxQBQ/UdCGM_4Vi1I/AAAAAAAAI_0/ZjUhLoEr2yg/s400/qualities-good-husband.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><br />Whether you’ve been dating for a month or a year, if things are going well with your girlfriend, she has wondered at least once or twice whether you might be marriage-worthy. While the answer isn’t going to be identical for everyone, there are definitely some must-have traits that a woman looks for when it comes time to dedicate herself to one single man. Here are 10 signs you're husband material. <br /><br /><br /><b>1. You don't notice other women</b><br />The last thing a woman wants is a husband who is always looking in the other direction. Now, this doesn’t mean that you need to literally ignore women. It means that you shouldn’t relate to these women in a way that suggests attraction.<br /><br /><br /><b>2. You have sensitivity</b><br />Women want to marry the type of man who can let down his guard around her and show his soft side; however, this doesn’t mean that she wants you to cry at chick flicks. It means that you're sensitive enough to understand your emotions, acknowledge them, and communicate as much as necessary. <br /><br /><br /><b>3. You've got your stuff together</b><br />You're smart, live on your own, know how to cook, have a steady job, and you're independent both financially and emotionally. While your woman shouldn’t expect you to buy her everything under the sun and pay all of her bills, you should be able to provide for yourself and help her along the way if necessary. <br /><br /><br /><b>4. You genuinely care about her well-being </b><br />You listen and remember when she tells you what makes her happy and go out of your way to accomplish it. You take her views and opinions seriously and are willing to sacrifice for her.<br /><br /><br /><b>5. You're not commitment phobic</b><br />You're not at all hesitant about introducing your woman as your one and only and you have no negative self-beliefs about commitment, love and relationships.<br /><br /><br /><b>6. You're protective of your woman</b><br />You make your woman feel safe, secure, and cared about and your attitude around her is consistent. She knows that deep down if anything were to ever happen to her, you’d be right there to protect her.<br /><br /><br /><b>7. You practice humility</b><br />You are mature enough to admit when you're wrong, apologize and really mean it. <br /><br /><br /><b>8. You can make her laugh</b><br />You're able to see and appreciate the humor in everyday life, which is a great quality in a mate. Mutual laughter is an essential component of a strong and healthy marriage. <br /><br /><br /><b>9. You've introduced her to your family and friends </b><br />You're committed to making sure she feels included in all parts of your life because you are proud of the relationship you have with her. You're not only serious about your relationship-- you want everyone in your life to know you're together.<br /><br /><br /><b>10. You keep her happy in bed</b><br />You consistently please your woman in bed and the intimacy between the two of you is on point.<br /> <span style="font-style: italic;"> </span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Interested in the other side of the coin? Check out our article on the <span style="color: orange;"> </span></span><i><a href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2011/12/what-to-look-for-in-wife.html"><span style="color: #b45f06;">Top 10: Signs She'll Make a Good Wife.</span></a></i>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288698340935124604.post-13236646913698159502013-06-25T23:01:00.000-07:002013-10-14T20:25:12.566-07:004 Reasons Women Don't Like Mama's Boys<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-_7Tyi_bUhGE/UcpgoIUEhjI/AAAAAAAAI_k/87jAhGEOy1M/s1600/dating-a-mamas-boy.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="266" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-_7Tyi_bUhGE/UcpgoIUEhjI/AAAAAAAAI_k/87jAhGEOy1M/s400/dating-a-mamas-boy.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><br />Men who have a good relationship with their mothers tend to be more understanding and respectful toward women. But a man who is always catering to all his mother’s requests can be extremely irritating to women and often in more ways than one. Here are 4 reasons why women don’t like to be with mama’s boys.<br /><br /><br /><b>1. Mama's boys can't take care of themselves</b><br />Mama’s boys are normally useless when it comes to taking care of basic things like laundry, cooking, and cleaning, since they’re used to their mom taking care of those things. Furthermore, women don't like to date men who need to be served and refuse to move out of their mom's basement.<br /><br /><br /><b>2. No privacy</b><br />It can be extremely annoying, not to mention downright embarrassing, when a mama's boy makes the mistake of telling his mother every intimate detail of his relationship with his lady. <br /><br /><br /><b>3. A mama’s boy can't make his own decisions</b><br />A mama’s boy will be so heavily influenced by his mother that he won’t be able to think of his own opinions and ideas unless he runs everything by her. It is a huge turn-off to women when they find that a guy will not make relationship decisions without his mother's approval. <br /><br /><br /><b>4. They don't want to be second priority</b><br />In the case of a mama’s boy, the mother is the number 1 priority in his life. Yes, it is normal and expected that a man will treat his mother on special occasions. But ultimately, every woman in a relationship would like to be top priority in her man's life, and the mama's boy just doesn't make room for this need. <br /><br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Check out our article on </span><a href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2012/03/what-women-hate-about-men.html" style="color: #996633;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="font-style: italic;">The Top 10 Things Women Hate About Men</span></span></a><span style="color: #996633;">.</span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288698340935124604.post-17618116462453895902013-06-23T18:33:00.000-07:002013-10-14T20:25:12.669-07:008 Things Women Hate To Hear<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-3jUQwcZ3k0g/UbJARt-S25I/AAAAAAAAI-g/r7tTSNJ9eYg/s1600/words-women-hate.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="223" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-3jUQwcZ3k0g/UbJARt-S25I/AAAAAAAAI-g/r7tTSNJ9eYg/s400/words-women-hate.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><br />Women love to talk, but when it comes to listening there are a few restrictions that need to be kept in mind. In the dating world, most women have discovered an unfortunate pattern with the majority of men and the asinine phrases they use. If you're seeking not to offend your dates and want to improve your chances with women, avoid the following words and phrases.<br /><br /><br /><b>1. "Is it that time of the month?"</b><br />Just because she's annoyed with you for constantly leaving the toilet seat up or forgetting her birthday does not mean that she is PMSing. So unless she's actually holding a box of tampons in her hand when you ask, don't ask this question. <br /><br /><br /><b>2. Cheesy pick-up lines</b><br />While most guys have the best intentions in mind when using pick-up lines, most women don't like them and the only things you can be assured of using these bad one-offs is <a href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2009/09/attracting-women.html" style="color: #996633;">making a bad first impression</a>, a slap in the face and a drink on your shirt.<br /><br /><br /><b>3. "You're really gaining weight!"</b><br />A woman's weight is among the most delicate of conversational topics. If she’s put on a few pounds, don’t fool yourself that she doesn’t know that. She doesn’t need you to be a jerk and point it out.<br /><br /><br /><b>4. Moist</b><br />This is the most hated word to the female ear because of the connotation of the word when used to describe her vagina along with its sleazy association with female desire.<br /><br /><br /><b>5. Panties</b><br />Perhaps it derives from the term “panties in a wad” which women find extremely sexist. Or maybe the word “panties” makes women feel like they are being talked to like a little girl. Do not refer to them as her panties--call them lingerie or underwear.<br /><br /><br /><b>6. Hey [gorgeous, baby, mama, boo, etc...]</b><br />Most women do not respond well to strangers who start off by calling them baby, gorgeous, beautiful, sexy, babe, dear, or any other condescending and objectifying terms that so many guys use on their initial contact. <br /><br /><br /><b>7. "Do you like me?" </b><br />Using this phrase can shut a woman’s attraction switch off permanently. Asking a woman a question like this is the exact<i> </i>opposite of being confident. So don’t ask, just <i>assume</i> she likes you, and go from there.<b><br /><br /><br /><b>8. "My ex used to love it when I..."</b><br /></b>You basically just admitted that you’re not over your ex, and you’re comparing every woman you meet to her. This is one of the most aggravating things you can do to a date, not to mention being a major turn off.<b> </b><br /><br />Interested in the other side of the coin? Check out our article on<b> </b><a href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2012/06/things-women-love-to-hear.html" style="color: #996633;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="font-style: italic;">The Top 10 Things Women Love To Hear</span></span></a><a href="http://./"><span style="color: #996633;">.</span></a>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288698340935124604.post-52693189473316856762013-05-29T02:31:00.000-07:002013-10-14T20:25:12.736-07:005 Texting Mistakes Men Make<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-tI5CXPtbpVo/UY3DRsxtp4I/AAAAAAAAI6g/-e0olLGzbqQ/s1600/things-not-to-text-a-girl.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="265" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-tI5CXPtbpVo/UY3DRsxtp4I/AAAAAAAAI6g/-e0olLGzbqQ/s400/things-not-to-text-a-girl.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><br />Nearly everyone has a cell phone these days and many relationships begin to evolve through the use of text messages. Sadly, the average guy out there doesn't know how to woo a woman over text messaging and ends up making several key errors that kills attraction. Here are 5 mistakes to avoid when you’re texting a girl. <br /><br /><br /><b>1. Sending dirty texts too early</b><br />Getting too sexual over text too early will scare her off and hurt your chances when it comes to setting up a date because you run the risk of her thinking that you are only after one thing: sex. <br /><div style="overflow: hidden;"><br /></div><br /><b>2. Sending too many texts before getting a reply</b><br /><div>Sending multiple texts one after the other without giving the girl a chance to reply to at least one of them only invites trouble. This habit shows that you are too eager and don't have much going on in your life. Give the girl some breathing space.</div><br /><br /><b>3. Sending texts that have no value</b><br />This is probably the biggest mistake guys make when they text women. Texts like "How's it going" or "What's up" do not make you stand out from all the other guys that are trying to text the same girl you are talking to. They do nothing more than put her on the spot to keep the interaction going and annoy her.<br /><br /><br /><b>4. Texting first date plans</b><br />Never <b>EVER</b> set up a first date via text. Anytime you ask a girl to go out, you want to do it on the phone or in person. A girl deserves to hear your voice when you ask her out and she wants a guy who is willing to risk calling her, not a guy who hides behind a text message.<br /><br /><br /><b>5. Texting long conversations</b><br />Text conversations are <b>NOT</b> the same as the actual conversations. When you insist on pointless chit chat just to keep the texts going, you can actually kill attraction and find yourself placed in the text version of the <a href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2009/03/relationship-tips-friend-zone.html" target="_blank"><span style="color: #b45f06;">FRIEND ZONE</span></a>. Instead, say more with less. Whenever you’re planning to text a girl, keep everything plain and simple. Start with the good stuff and keep it short and sweet.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288698340935124604.post-49842644706639257302013-03-25T21:17:00.000-07:002013-10-14T20:25:12.746-07:005 Signs Your Girlfriend Has Been Around<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-2-mZ4wdH7-k/UbDXHSGMMfI/AAAAAAAAI-Q/yjLALMrdlwg/s1600/experienced-women+(3).jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-2-mZ4wdH7-k/UbDXHSGMMfI/AAAAAAAAI-Q/yjLALMrdlwg/s400/experienced-women+(3).jpg" width="308" /></a></div>The discussion of past intimate partners can be a topic that is often avoided when starting a new relationship.<br /><br />Women who are open and free-spirited about their sexuality are among us, and while most men say they want a woman with <b><i>some</i></b> experience, they don’t want to feel like she’s got more miles on her then his SUV.<br /><br />So, if you' re getting the feeling that your new girlfriend has been around, here are 5 signs to look for to determine if the "sweet and innocent" woman you are with used to be the kind of girl guys thought of as a "sure thing."<br /><br /><br /><br /><b>1. She's unusually savvy in bed </b><br />Love-making should be good and you do have women that have developed a marvelous sense of their sexual self from only a couple of partners and/or long-term relationships. However, if you’re with a girl and she does a move that is just <b><i>too</i></b> good, that quality for her may have come as a result of having made more than just a few trips around the bases.<br /><br /><br /><b>2. She personally knows a lot of guys</b><br />It's not unusual for a woman to have a <a href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2010/01/girlfriend-has-male-friends.html" target="_blank"><span style="color: #b45f06;">guy friend</span></a>; however, it is not common to be constantly bumping into guys who your girlfriend knows and has obviously been intimate with. For example, the two of you go out and she says to you, “Hey wait, let me say hi to my friend Greg.” Another set of guys walk in. “Those are my friends John, Matt and Todd. I have to go say hi to them.” Another set walks in and she continues to know all the guys.<br /><br />The guys appear comfortable speaking to both of you, or know her immediately by her name, or even know her but can't recall her name for some reason. Their conversation will be short, awkward and painful to experience. As you leave, the guys will look at you in a way that signals “We’ve already had your girl.” Afterwards your girlfriend will swiftly explain that “they're just old friends” and change the conversation.<br /><br /><br /><b>3. She makes love as if on auto-pilot </b><br />Have you felt all romantic after a late-night romp with your current girlfriend, but she was left untouched by the experience? If she is too mechanical, the dirty talk is flaccid with phony excitement, she wants to please herself, or please you and then be done with it, or seldom has interest in cuddling or the like, it is a good indication that you are one in a long line and she's had her fair share.<br /><br /><br /><b>4. She knows <i>a lot</i> about condoms </b><br />It's a great thing for women to protect themselves. We're talking about the girls that know just a little too much about condoms and say things like: “That brand has a higher risk of breaking”, or “don’t flush it because condoms clog my toilet<b>.”</b> <b> </b><br /><br /><br /><b>5. She routinely gets tested </b><br />An obvious sign that she's been around in the past and has likely been with various partners is that she routinely gets tested for sexually-transmitted diseases.<br /><br />If you discover that your girlfriend has been around in the past, don't jump to conclusions. Ask her about the relationships, listen carefully to her tales and decide if there is a double standard in regards to the amount of women that you've been with. If she's has had many partners in the past, but loves you, treats you right and wants to engage in a serious relationship, should it really matter?<br /><br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Check out our article on the <a href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2009/02/meeting-single-women.html" style="color: #996633;">5 Traits of a Great Girlfriend</a>.</span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288698340935124604.post-78124559324972743032012-12-12T14:17:00.000-08:002013-10-14T20:25:12.756-07:008 Things Women Don't Want To Hear In Bed<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-bvLwosJP5Kk/UL_jtI_UFgI/AAAAAAAAI4s/iySiS08xGdw/s1600/things-not-to-say-in-bed+%283%29.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="231" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-bvLwosJP5Kk/UL_jtI_UFgI/AAAAAAAAI4s/iySiS08xGdw/s400/things-not-to-say-in-bed+%283%29.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><b> </b><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> </span></span><br /><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> While it’s easy to say all the right things in the bedroom, there are also some utterances that will bring the action to a serious halt </span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">make a woman put her pants back on<span style="font-size: small;">--</span><i><b>fast</b>.</i></span> </span></span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">Whether it’s a first-time hookup or long-term relationship, </span></span>here are just 8 things to never, ever, ever say to a woman in bed.</span></span><br /><br /><br /><b>1. “Who’s your daddy?”</b><br />When a woman is getting it on with you, it's a total turnoff to hear a creepy cliché that instantly makes her think of her dear old dad.<br /><br /><br /><b>2. Another woman’s name </b><br />Yes, she knows you have had intimate moments with other women, but every woman wants to think she is the only one. If you make this huge mistake, be extremely apologetic and be prepared to do whatever it takes to prove to her that she's the most beautiful, intelligent and sexiest woman you have ever met. <br /><br /><br /><b>3. “Shh!</b><b> Can you be quiet?” </b><br />Do you really want her to quiet down after she's turned up the volume to let you know how good it feels or that you’re just totally blowing her mind? <br /><br /><br /><b>4.</b> <b>“My ex used to love it when I...” </b><br />Talking about your prior sexual encounters is a deal breaker for a lot of of women. She doesn’t need to hear about it, and if you bring it up, she’ll feel threatened and jealous. <br /><br /><br /><b>5. “</b><b>We’d better hurry, I have to be out of here by 9:00.” </b><br />Telling a woman that you’re in a rush and that you don’t have much time to work with is a major mood-killer. Furthermore, making a such a flippant comment followed by a mad scramble for your boxer shorts is sure to freak women out. <b> </b><br /><br /><br /><b>6. </b><b>“Well, that was fun.” </b><br />When a woman sleeps with you for the first time, she can’t help but wonder if she's just another notch on your bedpost. Making deflating comments such as, "thank you," or "that was fun" means that you just had a sexual transaction (a hookup) and not an emotional connection.<br /><br /><br /><b>7. “You're almost as good as my last girlfriend.”</b><br />Every woman wants to think she is great in bed. Making a statement like this will blow her mind out of control and bring up certain questions, like, “Do you think about her while you are having sex with me?” and “Do you wish you were with her?” <br /><br /><br /><b>8. “Do you smell something funny?”</b><br />All girls have a distinct odor, and unless she has some sort of infection the smell is probably not a 'bad' smell. Women tend to be very self-conscious about their 'smell' and the only thing you will accomplish by telling her that she stinks is destroy her self esteem.<br /><br /> <span style="font-style: italic;">Interested on the other side of the coin? </span><span style="font-style: italic;">Check out our article on</span><span style="font-style: italic;"> </span><a href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2012/06/things-women-love-to-hear.html" style="color: #996633; font-style: italic;">The Top 10 Things Women Love To Hear.</a>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288698340935124604.post-25206480455491632472012-09-15T12:34:00.000-07:002013-10-14T20:25:12.768-07:00Top 10: Signs Of A Healthy Relationship<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-eJLCXM8-oOc/UFTcwtWYNPI/AAAAAAAAI2s/_mffS4oNlxM/s1600/signs-of-a-healthy-relationship.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 267px; height: 400px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-eJLCXM8-oOc/UFTcwtWYNPI/AAAAAAAAI2s/_mffS4oNlxM/s400/signs-of-a-healthy-relationship.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5788494150443218162" border="0" /></a>Understanding what constitutes healthy relationships can help you make changes that lead to new heights of intimacy, happiness and fulfillment. No relationship is perfect, but here are 10 standard elements that should exist in all healthy relationships.<br /><br /><b><br />1. There is mutual respect between partners</b><br />A true sign of a good relationship is mutual respect between partners. It means that you respect each others’ individuality and make the most of your differences.<br /><br /><br /><b>2. You trust each other</b><br />Each partner has faith in the other to be emotionally available when needed and you feel a genuine sense of safety and security in the relationship.<br /><b><br /><br />3. You appreciate each other</b><br />Both of you feel appreciated in the relationship and neither you or your partner feel unappreciated or taken for granted. You praise each other, offer compliments and use creative ways to show you care.<br /><br /><b></b><b><br />4. You can be honest with each other</b><br />In a healthy relationship, both partners display honesty and integrity from the start and maintain it throughout the course of the relationship. This means being honest in everything, and not telling those little white lies that can lead on to bigger, and more defining lies.<br /><b><br /></b><b><br />5. You support each other</b><br />In a healthy relationship, each person is interested in what the other is doing and there is a balance between giving and taking. Both partners are available for each other in a time of need.<b><br /><br /><br />6. You can spend quality time apart</b><br />In a healthy relationship, you shouldn't feel suffocated or controlled by your partner. Healthy individuals have their own friends, family members, interests and opinions outside the relationship. This also means letting her have a girls' night or her letting you hang out with your friends.<br /><b><br /></b><b><br />7. You have a good sex life</b><br />You're both okay with how often you have sex, how you have sex, where you have sex...and there's mutual participation. Sex is not withheld as a punishment and both partners feel safe enough to express their sexual desires without worrying that their partner will force them to do things they're uncomfortable with.<br /><br /><b><br />8. You manage conflict well</b><br />Contrary to what some may think, a healthy relationship doesn't mean you're happy 100 percent of the time. In a healthy relationship, you should be able to resolve your differences without blaming or belittling the other person. Instead of just avoiding arguments, healthy couples know how to handle them when they inevitably do come up.<br /><b><br /></b><b><br />9. There is good communication<br /></b>If you are in a healthy balanced relationship, you should be able to listen to your partner and be able to support them without letting your own feelings get in the way. Both partners share details of their daily lives to strengthen their emotional bond and spend time together and learn about each other’s thoughts and ideas.<br /><br /><b><br />10. You truly feel happy</b><br />In a good relationship, both the partners are happy to be with each other and enjoy the relationship. You laugh with your partner and have fun together. You don’t feel like you are pretending, or that you should be someone other than who you are.<p></p><span style="font-style: italic;"><br />Interested on the other side of the coin? </span><span style="font-style: italic;">Check out our article on</span><span style="font-style: italic;"> </span><a href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2010/04/unhealthy-relationships.html" style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51); font-style: italic;">The Top 10 Unhealthy Relationship Signs</a>.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288698340935124604.post-28269523683259362452012-09-06T17:27:00.000-07:002013-10-14T20:25:12.781-07:00Top 10: Ways To Keep Your Girlfriend Happy<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-TJZjRRjSwEw/UEnvsfQc0RI/AAAAAAAAIzw/TjmRYYEidOE/s1600/how-to-make-your-girlfriend-happy%2B%25284%2529.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 224px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-TJZjRRjSwEw/UEnvsfQc0RI/AAAAAAAAIzw/TjmRYYEidOE/s400/how-to-make-your-girlfriend-happy%2B%25284%2529.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5785418743917891858" border="0" /></a><span class="body"><br />When it comes to relationships, most guys work too hard at trying to keep themselves happy rather than their girlfriends.</span><span class="body"> There are certain elements of dating that guys should never overlook. </span><span class="body"><span class="body"><span class="body">Being a good boyfriend is a lot of work, <span class="body">but what it all boils down to is </span></span></span></span><span class="body"><span class="body"><span class="body"><span class="body"><span class="body"><span class="body"><span class="body"><span class="body">appreciating your woman and </span></span></span></span>making her feel good about herself.</span></span></span></span><span class="body"> With that, here are 10 </span><span class="body">steps to keeping the lady in your life happy:</span><br /><br /><b><br />1. Listen to her</b><br />Most men don't realize that a woman's idea of communication means actually listening to what she has to say and understanding her as well as relating to her problems without judging her or providing unwanted advice. Listen and understand your girlfriend's deep inward emotion and spirit.<br /><b><br /><br />2. Always make her feel beautiful</b><br />Don't just tell her you think she's beautiful, or she'll stop believing you. You need to continually show her that you think she is beautiful with your actions. Buy her sexy clothes, take her dancing and ignore everybody else, woo her with sweet gestures and brag about her to others. Do whatever you can do show her that she's the most gorgeous creature you've ever laid eyes on.<br /><br /><br /><b>3. Know how to please her in bed</b><br />A good boyfriend must satisfy his woman's every romantic need not by making love just for the sake of it, but by being passionate about it. Show your partner the emotional intimacy she craves. Communicate with her on every level and anticipate her desires and needs.<br /><br /><br /><b>4. Make her feel important</b><br />You have to understand that she's an equal part of the relationship, so appreciate her company and remember what is important to her. Look her in the eye and tell her what she means to you. Point out all the ways she is different from your past girlfriends and let her know there can be no substitute for her.<br /><b><br /><br />5. Challenge her to be better</b><br />You can naturally gain a special place in your woman's life by helping her find what she wants in life and make her understand and believe how important her happiness is to you. Help change the way she sees the world and help her stand out and live a happier life. The fact that you care that much about her well-being will make her want to keep you around longer.<br /><b><br /><br />6. Pay attention to details</b><br />Did she suddenly change her hair color, shed a few pounds, or buy a new outfit? These are all things you need to take note of; most women instinctively flock to attentive guys with keen eyes.<br /><b><br /><br />7. Be spontaneous</b><br />Once things become predictable in a relationship, things become boring--and once things become boring, the relationship is essentially over. Mix things up a little and surprise her with flowers or hidden love notes, whisk her away to an unplanned romantic weekend and call her for no other reason than to simply say "I love you."<strong> </strong><br /><b><br /><br />8. Make her laugh</b><br />Not only will showing off your great sense of humor get a girl to laugh--it's bound to ensure that both of you enjoy your time spent together. A sense of humor usually tops a woman's attraction wish list and is one of the best <a style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);" href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2010/09/female-turn-ons.html">ways to turn her on</a>.<br /><br /><b><br />9. Don't take her for granted</b><br />Women want a man to be someone that makes them feel happy, secure and loved and don't want to deal with insensitive remarks, little hurts and frustration in a relationship. Let her know that you do appreciate her doing things for you.<br /><b><br /><br />10. Be chivalrous</b><br />Show respect for your girlfriend by being a gentleman. Even if you have been together for a while and chivalry has fallen by the wayside, revive it by opening doors for her, pulling out her chair at the restaurant, helping her with heavy bags, etc...<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Interested in the other side of the coin? Check out our article on the <a style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);" href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2009/02/meeting-single-women.html">5 Traits of a Great Girlfriend</a>.</span><br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288698340935124604.post-52389335041064616362012-08-31T14:09:00.000-07:002013-10-14T20:25:12.793-07:005 Signs You're Her Backup Guy<a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-eMATm-jU6k4/UEFQvKW6ONI/AAAAAAAAItU/4Gnb-ZgKifs/s1600/backup-boyfriend.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 283px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-eMATm-jU6k4/UEFQvKW6ONI/AAAAAAAAItU/4Gnb-ZgKifs/s400/backup-boyfriend.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5782992167684946130" border="0" /></a><span class="text_brown12_LH18"><span class="featureText"><br />We define the "backup guy" as </span></span>a guy who is more than a friend, but less than a boyfriend.<span class="text_brown12_LH18"><span class="featureText"> </span></span>He's <span class="text_brown12_LH18"><span class="featureText">the safe, terrifically nice guy who’s always surrounded by women that complain to him about the</span></span> cold-hearted losers they're dating. <span class="text_brown12_LH18"><span class="featureText">He's the </span></span><span class="text_brown12_LH18"><span class="featureText">boyfriend substitute</span></span><span class="text_brown12_LH18"><span class="featureText"> women call upon when all other options vanish</span></span><span class="text_brown12_LH18"><span class="featureText">.</span></span> <span class="text_brown12_LH18"><span class="featureText">He's </span></span><span class="text_brown12_LH18"><span class="featureText">always surrounded by women</span></span><span class="text_brown12_LH18"><span class="featureText"> who want to date someone just <em>like</em> him-- except they won’t <em>date</em> him, for whatever reason. </span></span><br /><br />The following 5 signs are all giveaways that you’ve fallen into the “backup guy” trap. With a quick perusal of the list below, you should be in a good position to decipher when to continue your pursuit and when to walk away with your dignity intact.<b></b><b><br /><br /><br />1. She rarely return your calls</b><br /><span>If a girl is attracted to you, </span><span>she should be calling you at least once for every three times you call her. </span>However, if you don’t hear from her for weeks or months at a time, and all of a sudden she wants to hang out, take it as she’s just bored or is between boyfriends and there’s no one else to call.<b><br /><br /><br />2. She regularly cancels at the last minute</b><br />It is certainly fair to cancel plans occasionally for a legitimate reason, but if she flakes on you consistently and doesn’t try to be flexible with her schedule to free up time for you, it shows that she holds little respect for you at and that she doesn't want to commit in case something better comes up.<br /><b><br /><br />3. She teases you along with the simple intention of keeping you around</b><br />She romantically teases you along with things like "accidental" kisses with the simple intention of keeping you around so you'll always be there to rescue her. She even allows you to sleep in her bed so she can talk to you all night long about her feelings.<br /><br /><b><br />4. She tells you what a great boyfriend you'd be... for some lucky girl</b><br />This is basically like saying "you have all the qualities I'm supposed to want in a guy, but for some reason I find you sexually repulsive."<br /><b><br /><br />5</b><b>. She talks about other guys while you are with her<br /></b><span>She asks you for advice about different men she’s attracted to and constantly </span><span>tells you about all her problems with them. </span>When a woman you're interested in becomes comfortable enough to openly talk to you about all her problems with other men and asks you for advice about the guys she’s attracted to, she doesn't see you as a potential lover--You're in the <a href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2009/03/relationship-tips-friend-zone.html"><span style="color:#996633;">FRIEND ZONE</span></a>.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288698340935124604.post-4555123568542800452012-08-31T10:52:00.000-07:002013-10-14T20:25:12.806-07:004 Signs She'll Break Your Heart<a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/--9axLE_91d4/UEVkWVml4NI/AAAAAAAAIwc/l2b0BB6Oh0M/s1600/warning-signs-bad-relationship.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 234px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/--9axLE_91d4/UEVkWVml4NI/AAAAAAAAIwc/l2b0BB6Oh0M/s400/warning-signs-bad-relationship.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5784139631346180306" border="0" /></a><br />At the start of a new relationship, it's easy to overlook the clear cut signs that she’ll break your heart because of genuine attraction, excitement or just the fact you’re getting some action. However, with the majority of relationships destined for failure, you need to be selective and end a sour one before too much of your time and energy has been invested. For your benefit, here are 4 signs that she’ll break your heart.<br /><b><br /><br />1. She was already involved when she met you</b><br />The two of you hooked up when she was dating another guy or even worse--you're <a href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2010/05/meeting-married-women.html"><span style="color:#996633;">dating a married woman</span></a>. While it can be easy to discount logic and naysayers when you're head-over-heels in love, but sooner or later you'll realize that you'll never be able to fully trust her. After all, how do you know she wouldn't start dating someone else? A cheat is always a cheat.<br /><b><br /><br />2. She's close with her exes</b><br />If you meet a girl that is able to stay good friends with her exes and gets a lot of calls from a lot of guys who all seem very close to her, she'll damage you. She may have some "friends with benefits" things going on with her exes, and the fact that she finds men so disposable means that she never really builds up strong relationships anyway. If you're looking for a serious relationship, <b>never</b> get involved with a girl who easily switches from viewing as lovers to treating them as friends.<br /><br /><br /><b>3. She has deep-rooted issues</b><br />Whether it's problems with alcohol, drugs, or psychological issues, if there's something in her life that you’re always second place to, this relationship is not going to last long.<br /><b><br /><br />4. She's very secretive and lies a lot</b><br />If your girl isn't big on telling the truth, doesn't feel guilt over her constant lies, does whatever is "easiest" to get by rather than dealing with the truth and simply tells you what you want to hear, you should end it sooner rather than later. Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288698340935124604.post-58114924716692981142012-08-23T14:52:00.000-07:002013-10-14T20:25:12.816-07:005 Reasons You're Just Friends<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-v5hpTL30gCo/UDamS7JjekI/AAAAAAAAInk/zThK9W9iZd0/s1600/the-friend-zone.png"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5779990015822232130" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-v5hpTL30gCo/UDamS7JjekI/AAAAAAAAInk/zThK9W9iZd0/s400/the-friend-zone.png" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 238px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 400px;" /></a><br />So you've been trying hard to get close to a girl, and the more time the two of you spend together, the more you realize how much you actually like her. You've gotten really close to her with all the hopes of piquing her sexual interest, but somewhere along the way, you may have taken a few detours that led you right into <span style="color: #996633;"><a href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2009/03/relationship-tips-friend-zone.html">the friend zone</a></span>. So why have you ended up as friends instead of her boyfriend? Here’s why<b>.<br /><br /><br />1. You've never asked for a date</b><br />You secretly lust for her, but instead of asking her out, you behave like a friend and never let the girl know that you have more than friendly intentions on your mind. If you like a girl, you have to make it subtly obvious that you're romantically interested in her. If your "friend" does not know you want more, then she cannot give more. Put it on the table and see what happens.<br /><b><br /></b><b><br />2. You voluntarily became her best friend</b><br />You became her romantic counselor, listened to every cry and pity party moment about how her last boyfriend did her wrong. You began doing things her girlfriends do with her to the point she's lost all realization of the fact that you have a package down there. You've become another sexless thing she hangs out with all the time as a platonic friend. You chose to be her shoulder to lean on, knowing you wanted to be her boyfriend all along.<br /><b><br /><br />3. You're way too nice and accommodating</b><br />You may be a good catch, but you can give a woman too much of yourself too soon. If you're always available for a woman at the drop of a dime, and offer zero challenge to her, you will not spark that base desire within her.<br /><br /><b><br />4. She's afraid to take it to the next level</b><br />It is sometimes a risk to go from being friends to being "lovers". A woman could value the friendship so much that she fears losing what the two of you have. <b>Your friend</b> will have to work through her fear to change this.<br /><b><br /></b><b>5. She's just not attracted to you</b><br />This is the most common scenario. She may find you funny, charming and fun to be with --but she just doesn't feel any sexual chemistry with you. Sometimes it’s just the way it is -- you don’t want to hit the sheets with every woman you meet, do you? If she‘s just not into you, you have a choice to make: Either stay her friend or move on completely.<br /><br /><span class="posR size10 newlook newpaginationlook" id="ctl07_lblPageContant3"><span style="font-style: italic;">Interested in the other side of the coin? Check out our article on </span><a href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2012/05/female-friend-to-girlfriend.html" style="color: #996633;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="font-style: italic;">The 5 Signs She Wants To Be More Than Friends</span></span></a><span style="color: #996633;">.</span></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288698340935124604.post-9960133291484315162012-08-21T11:38:00.000-07:002013-10-14T20:25:12.913-07:00Top 5 Relationship Killers<a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-tvp3zkrpc_s/UDPWWvkOJDI/AAAAAAAAImU/AWsAAdtfwk0/s1600/relationship-killers.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 184px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-tvp3zkrpc_s/UDPWWvkOJDI/AAAAAAAAImU/AWsAAdtfwk0/s400/relationship-killers.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5779198433060332594" border="0" /></a><br />Once you've found a great girlfriend, the last thing you want to do is lose her through a bad misstep. No one can list all the potential things that can destroy a relationship, but we can give you a heads up on the most likely causes of a breakup with these 5 relationship killers.<br /><b><br /><br />1. Cheating</b><br />Cheating is the ultimate relationship killer because once someone has cheated, regaining full trust is next to impossible. The initial betrayal of finding out that a partner has strayed is often enough to leave a relationship dead, and even if a couple does try to work past the cheating, the majority of couples won't survive.<br /><br /><b><br />2. Always placing your career before her</b><br />Your girlfriend is likely very proud of your career success and appreciates being with an ambitious man; however, she also expects you to make time for her. If you stay late at work every night, cancel dates for last-minute business meetings, or if you choose to constantly spend time with your co-workers after work, she will come to her own conclusions about your priorities.<br /><b><br /><br />3. Letting Yourself Go<br /></b> If your girlfriend was attracted to you when you were wearing Italian suits, chances are that's what she likes, and she may not be attracted to you if you begin wearing nothing but holey sweatpants and football jerseys. Letting yourself go tells your girlfriend that she's not important enough for you to maintain your appearance and you were just putting on a facade to attract her.<br /><br /><b><br />4. Not making enough time for her<br /></b>If you want to keep your girlfriend around, you have to find <span style="color:#996633;"><a href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2009/04/ways-to-make-your-woman-feel-special.html">ways to make her feel special</a></span> and important. You're not a bachelor anymore, so you will have to give up time watching the game with your pals in order to spend time with together with the lady in your life. Remember, if you don't pay attention to her, a lot of other men will.<br /><b><br /><br />5. Being controlling</b><br />People hate to have their freedoms limited by another person or persons. Controlling behavior such as blaming, anger, rage, violence, judgment, criticism and ridicule almost always results in resentment and emotional distance.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288698340935124604.post-560340026220742842012-08-21T11:30:00.000-07:002013-10-14T20:25:13.009-07:00Dating Mistakes You Don't Realize You're Making<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-jHw2LcGFZs4/UDPVl4xoAQI/AAAAAAAAImE/zyusIbjCnCI/s1600/dating-mistakes.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-jHw2LcGFZs4/UDPVl4xoAQI/AAAAAAAAImE/zyusIbjCnCI/s400/dating-mistakes.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5779197593718882562" border="0" /></a><br />While some dating mistakes are obvious, others can be trickier to recognize. In fact, you may not even know you’re making them. So, if you feel as if you are somehow going off track with your relationships, but aren't really sure how, check to see if you are making any of these 5 dating mistakes:<br /><br /><b><br />1. Talking about your ex on your dates</b><br />Talking about your ex with your dates is never a good move. Women view men that can't stop talking about their ex non-stop as having unresolved frustrations and pent-up bitterness. You don’t need to go into details about each and every past relationship you’ve ever had or how you were wronged during any date. She also doesn’t need to know exact names, dates or all the gross details about you and your ex's sex life.<br /><br /><b><br />2. Sharing too much information </b><br />Don't give out your resume on the first date. <span style=";font-family:arial;font-size:100%;" > </span><span style=";font-family:arial;font-size:100%;" >Some of your past is straightforward and can be discussed right then and there; however,</span><span style=";font-family:arial;font-size:100%;" ></span><span style=";font-family:arial;font-size:100%;" > the first </span><span style=";font-family:Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;font-size:100%;" ><span style="font-family:arial;">date is not show and tell time</span>.</span><span style=";font-family:arial;font-size:100%;" > </span><br /><br /><b><br />3. Having a narrow focus</b><br />Always dating the same type of women and expecting different results is a recipe for disaster. Branch out of your dating comfort zone and give a chance to those women you haven’t previously considered (think age, looks, profession, interests). Remember that dating only women that you think of as your type has gotten you exactly where you are right now--single.<br /><br /><b><br />4. Expecting too much too soon</b><br />Nothing turns a woman off and sends her running away faster than a guy who starts <span style="color:#996633;"><a href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2010/04/relationship-expert-advice.html">moving too fast </a></span>and expects instant attraction, love and devotion, or even instant great sex after only one or two dates.<br /><br /><b><br />5. Giving up power</b><br />Lots of guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants; becoming too considerate, too helpful and too kind in an effort to seemingly align their lives with a woman’s wishes. Don't be one of them. Women <b>don't</b> respect pushovers and they <span style="font-weight: bold;">don't</span> feel attraction for "nice" guys who always kiss up to them. Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288698340935124604.post-57973552968299522442012-08-20T13:45:00.000-07:002013-10-14T20:25:13.105-07:008 Types Of Guys Women Avoid Dating<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-9TN1jMWPQQI/UDL3dERTpQI/AAAAAAAAIlc/dD016NSKaDA/s1600/men-women-avoid.png"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-9TN1jMWPQQI/UDL3dERTpQI/AAAAAAAAIlc/dD016NSKaDA/s400/men-women-avoid.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5778953350604367106" border="0" /></a><br />While every woman is looking for something different in a man, there are certain types of men that women go out of their way to avoid. And this is especially true during the early stages of a relationship, when a woman is trying to gauge a man's personality. Below are eight types of guys that women consistently stay away from.<br /><br /><b><br />1. The Financially Irresponsible Guy</b><br />A huge red flag is a financially irresponsible man with bad credit who's constantly buying things he does not need, overdrawing his bank account(s) and maxing out credit cards. Most women don't want to deal with a guy who can't seem to rustle up enough money for a latte, pay their bills on time, or spend his money wisely.<br /><br /><br /><b>2. The Man-Child</b><br />This guy is clinging to his glory days when life was less complicated and responsibility was minimal. He’s obsessed with video games, frequently attends keg parties and considers Pizza Rolls one of the major food groups. These men are the ones who can’t keep a job, blame everyone else for their own stupidity and laziness, and are constantly outraged that the world is not giving them respect.<br /><br /><b><br />3. The Narcissistic Guy</b><br />One type of attitude guys have that women avoid is being too narcissistic and self-contained. Most women feel that this type of guy is obsessed with himself and would rather spend his time toning his muscles and looking good than on a date with them.<br /><br /><b><br />4. The Needy Guy</b><br />Women are not attracted to the type of man who needs too much support, validation, and constant reinforcement. The moment a man becomes too insecure and dependent in a relationship, a woman will run for the hills.<br /><br /><b><br />5. The Wandering-Eye Guy</b><br />This type of man can be the most aggravating for women to deal with because he's constantly looking at every female but the one he’s with. He makes inappropriate comments/gestures about women, ogles the bartender, the woman at the grocery store, even his best friend's wife, making the woman he's with feel inferior and unattractive.<br /><br /><b><br />6. The Predictable Guy</b><br />Women don't like the routine driven guy who does not like change, lacks spontaneity, and is predictable in all areas of his life from how he will react to situations, decisions he will make, the sex he will have, and the dates he will go on.<br /><br /><b><br />7. The Liar</b><br />This guy fabricates stories about about pretty much anything in hopes of getting laid instead of just being honest about his life or his desire for a casual fling. While the little white lies about past conquests, jobs, exes, qualifications, and experiences may seem harmless, most women don't want to deal with a guy who can't or won't tell the truth.<br /><b><br /><br />8. The Desperate Guy</b><br />The <span style="color:#996633;"><a href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2011/07/signs-of-desperate-man.html">desperate man</a></span> may have a strong want and desire to have a relationship; however, due to having little experience in the romance and dating department, his behaviors can indicate low-self esteem and a host of other issues that turn women off and can actually be viewed as creepy and disturbing.<br /><br /><span id="ctl07_lblPageContant3" class="posR size10 newlook newpaginationlook"><span style="font-style: italic;">Interested in the other side of the coin? Check out our article on </span><a style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);" href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2010/08/women-to-avoid-dating.html"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="font-style: italic;">The Top 10 Types of Women to Avoid Dating</span></span></a><span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);">.</span><br /></span><br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288698340935124604.post-78977435379363838482012-06-28T15:06:00.000-07:002013-10-14T20:25:13.200-07:005 Behaviors Women Find Creepy<a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-3nZU3djTTOc/T-0GCvXAXJI/AAAAAAAAIfQ/MOWQf7QFrP8/s1600/mistakes-men-make-in-dating.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 225px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-3nZU3djTTOc/T-0GCvXAXJI/AAAAAAAAIfQ/MOWQf7QFrP8/s400/mistakes-men-make-in-dating.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5759266142619196562" border="0" /></a><br />In the early stages of a relationship, it's surprisingly easy to give out a creepy vibe to women without even noticing. What can be perceived as regular behavior for anyone with whom you have an established relationship can range from obnoxious to downright frightening when displayed to a new woman you barely know. Here's a list of 5 behaviors that might trip the creep-meter for women who are just getting to know you.<span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><br /><br />1. Being unable to read her signs</span><br />You see an attractive woman across the room, so you try to catch her eye. You walk past her. You look at her. You even sit next to her and try to make eye contact. No luck. Your next move should be to take the hint that she noticed you and isn't interested. A man who refuses to accept this and continues engaging in a staring contest with a disinterested woman will make himself appear as as a potential stalker.<span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><br /><br />2. Aggressively trying to contact her</span><br />Many men seem to believe that they can prove their interest in a woman by chasing her down-- calling, texting, emailing, and following up on each unanswered message with more. While it's understandable that you want to get to know her better and you have many reasons for getting in touch with her, this behavior will only make you appear as a <a style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);" href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2011/07/signs-of-desperate-man.html">desperate man</a> who is socially inept, insecure, and impatient. It's probably best if you initiate contact no more than two times without any initiative on her part to return the gesture.<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><br />3. Dropping by unexpectedly</span><br />If a woman tells you what time she gets off work or class, that is one thing, but paying attention to and noting her schedule without her being aware of it will only scare her off. No one wants to feel like they’re being watched like a hawk. A woman you've just met won't think it's very cute when you are always waiting for her at the same time outside her work or dropping off surprises on her doorstep. She will quickly realize how closely you pay attention to where she is and what she's doing, and will determine that you are a weirdo.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">4. </span></span><span style="font-weight: bold;">Mentioning sex at any point during the initial conversations</span><br /><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">Most single women who've been dating for awhile want to filter out guys who are only after sex, </span></strong>so if you mention anything overtly sexual in your first few text messages, phone calls, or dates, you're going to be seen as a "typical" guy who is only fixated on sex and creep her out.<strong><br style="font-weight: normal;"><br /><br />5. Invading her personal space<br /></strong>There's something about a guy assuming that he can move in close that women find so unappealing and creepy. It's probably not a good idea to move into a new woman's personal space until you understand her <a style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);" href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2011/03/understanding-body-language.html">body language</a> and get some signs that she is interested in that.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288698340935124604.post-49830577971446778262012-06-26T17:59:00.000-07:002013-10-14T20:25:13.297-07:008 Signs She's Not Worth Dating<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-UMbaMHSDp4g/T-xnD6i-uiI/AAAAAAAAIeE/hwLI_irq0so/s1600/dating-red-flags-for-men.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-UMbaMHSDp4g/T-xnD6i-uiI/AAAAAAAAIeE/hwLI_irq0so/s400/dating-red-flags-for-men.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5759091340453263906" border="0" /></a><br />When it comes to choosing a potential mate, no one should ever settle for mediocrity, yet so often the women we date either hold us back, bring us down, or simply hurt us in one way or another down the road, in every sense of the word. That being said, here are 8 signs that your current love interest isn't worth dating.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />1. She has a lack of intelligence<br /></span>While many men have been conditioned to have an affinity for less intelligent women who are less challenging and opinionated, there are more pitfalls than you may think when dealing with a woman you can't have an intellectual conversation with.<span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><br /><br />2. She's all about drama and mind games</span><br />There’s a certain kind of woman who believes that acting out, extreme selfishness, entitlement, throwing tantrums, pathological jealousy and having narcissistic rages are normal and acceptable female behavior. <em style="font-weight: bold;">They’re not</em>. Do yourself a favor and drop her.<br /><br /><br style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">3. She can't hold down a job</span><br />A woman that can't hold down a job or always seems to have problems at work is usually lazy and just looking for a sugar daddy to meet all of her needs.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">4.</span></span><span style="font-weight: bold;"> She's dishonest</span><br />Lying is a big red flag. We're not saying you should definitely call it quits if she has lied to you, but you should take this very seriously, especially if she has lied about her background, age, her health situation, etc..<span style="font-weight: bold;"> </span><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><br />5. She has drug and alcohol problems</span><br />You cannot have a healthy relationship with a woman who has obvious drug and alcohol problems. Do you really want someone who is a drunk or uses drugs to be the mother of your children? Think about it.<br /><b><u><br /></u></b><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">6. She's self-centered<br /></span>If she spends more time talking about herself than getting to know you and the only feelings worth considering are hers, cut ties with her as soon as possible.<br style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><br />7. You have nothing in common</span> <span style="font-weight: bold;">with her</span><br />You don’t need to have everything in common with her, but you do need something that connects the two of you. If you guys can’t seem to come together on anything, you need to part ways with her.<br style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><br />8. She's flaky </span><br /><strong></strong>The flaky girl isn’t worth your time either. One day she loves you. The next day she's not sure. The third day she wants to have your children. The fourth day she needs some space. Give her as much space as she needs, and never come back.<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Check out our article on </span><a style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);" href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2011/03/dating-red-flags.html"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="font-style: italic;">The Top 10 Red Flags Women Look For</span></span></a><span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);">.</span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288698340935124604.post-25561728419461739582012-06-21T16:54:00.000-07:002013-10-14T20:25:13.393-07:00Top 10: Things Women Love To Hear<a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-vdhVFcRTWnI/T-oKURKogZI/AAAAAAAAIbs/0r7FN2AeBbk/s1600/things-women-love-to-hear.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-vdhVFcRTWnI/T-oKURKogZI/AAAAAAAAIbs/0r7FN2AeBbk/s400/things-women-love-to-hear.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5758426416868262290" border="0" /></a><br />Do you sometimes find yourself struggling to find the right things to say to the lady in your life? If there's one thing that has always kept men wondering about women, it has to be figuring out what they love to hear. Whether you are in a committed relationship or wanting to take your relationship to the next level, here are 10 phrases that women never get sick of hearing.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />1. "You're very smart."</span><br />Women want to be appreciated for their intelligence. By acknowledging her intelligence, you're communicating that you recognize her brains and not just her figure.<br /><br style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />2. "You are the most beautiful woman I know."</span><br />Aside from making her feel aesthetically superior to other women, this remark will put her on a pedestal among her peers and give her an ego boost. She'll feel good about herself and will also feel less threatened by other women when they are around you. This phrase is particularly effective in long-term relationships, as you're assuring your woman that she's still hot.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />3. "You're my best friend."</span><br />Want to assure her that you are the kind of man who's not just with her for her looks? All you need to do is to tell her that she is not just the love of your life, but also your best friend. Telling her how you feel above and beyond a sexual context will make her feel overpoweringly connected to you.<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><br />4. "I am so proud of you."</span><br />Telling your woman how proud you are of her for working hard to achieve her goals and showing your loving support will make her heart melt. <br style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><br />5. "You're perfect just the way you are."</span><br />This statement says that you've accepted her completely. Giving her an ego boost like that makes her feel cognizant about how much you openly and willingly accept her flaws.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />6. "I don't want to be with anyone else."</span><br />This expression of enduring commitment says that she has become an essential, indispensable ingredient in your life and that you couldn't live without her. This is a heavy line; it's not many degrees away from proposing to her, so only say this if you truly mean it.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />7. "What do you feel/think about [anything]?"</span><br />Women love to express their feelings on every topic imaginable. Asking this question tells your lady that you respect her views and that you're genuinely concerned about her feelings and opinions.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />8. "How was your day?"</span><br />Asking about her day assures that you're willing to lend her your pair of ears and focus on what she has to say.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />9. "You're great in bed."</span><br />Praising her performance in bed makes her feel like she really knows how to satisfy you and indicates that you appreciate her performance between the sheets.<br /><br /><br style="font-weight: bold;"> <span style="font-weight: bold;">10. "I love you."</span><br />Few men realize or appreciate the power of saying "I love you." By saying those three magic words (when you really mean it), you're acknowledging an attachment to your woman and satisfying her most basic emotional need--to know how her man feels about her and to hear it. abuse the words. Remember--saying this just to smooth over mistakes or as a precursor to every word out of your mouth won't fill her with delight.<br /><br />Sometimes it's not just about the words from a man's mouth, it is also about showing your love through your actions. <span style="font-style: italic;">Check out our article on</span><span style="font-style: italic;"> </span><a style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51); font-style: italic;" href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2009/04/ways-to-make-your-woman-feel-special.html">The Top 10 Ways to Make Her feel Special</a>.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288698340935124604.post-58328828432280576872012-06-20T08:39:00.000-07:002013-10-14T20:25:13.487-07:005 Reasons Women Flake Out<a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-I9cdSeREL8I/T-JJmhh_c7I/AAAAAAAAIXw/9PUYL5p7buc/s1600/why-women-flake-out.jpg"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5756244199917712306" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-I9cdSeREL8I/T-JJmhh_c7I/AAAAAAAAIXw/9PUYL5p7buc/s400/why-women-flake-out.jpg" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 273px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 400px;" /></a><br />Have you ever made plans with a woman and then 30 minutes before your date, she sends you a text saying “I totally forgot I have plans to meet my brother and can’t make it” or “I've been called in to work at the last minute. Maybe some other time?” This woman did not just "remember" she had plans. She used a lame excuse to get out of a meeting with you. Face it, you just got flaked on!<br /><br />Although flaking is a fact of life for any guy who is putting himself out there in the dating world, women don't realize the frustration, annoyance and hurt men experience when they have a woman flake on them. So why do women agree to go out on a date, then never show up? Why do women give you their phone number, then never pick up when you call? Here are five main reasons why women flake on dates.<br /><br style="font-weight: bold;" /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />1. Someone or something else better came along</span><br />Women get hit on all the time and basically have an unlimited number of options, and there’s always the chance that she met another guy she was more attracted to. Or maybe it’s not even a guy, but something came up that's more appealing than going on a date with someone she doesn’t really know.<br /><br /><br style="font-weight: bold;" /><span style="font-weight: bold;">2. She's already involved with someone</span><br />Sometimes women will flake because they’re already in a relationship. Maybe she got caught up in the moment and cheating seemed like a good idea at the time, but after thinking about it, she started having second thoughts.<br /><br /><br style="font-weight: bold;" /><span style="font-weight: bold;">3. She didn't feel enough attraction to you</span><br />Sometimes a woman still won’t come out to meet you because she was never all that interested in you and therefore has no incentive to see you again. <br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><br />4. She thinks you're creepy</span><br />For a woman, it may be a safety concern. If she feels an unexplainable feeling of discomfort and awkwardness toward you, she'll simply keep away from you altogether.<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><br />5. She was just a tease</span><br />Some women intentionally go out and give guys their numbers because they <span style="font-weight: bold;">WANT</span> guys they never plan to sleep with chasing them around. Some of the reasons these <a href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2009/11/how-to-spot-manipulator.html" style="color: #cc9933;">manipulative women</a> engage in this ‘teasing‘ behavior is because it gives them wanted attention, an ego boost by impressing other women and assurance that they could in fact have certain men if they wanted.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288698340935124604.post-72527069691009602572012-06-11T20:47:00.000-07:002013-10-14T20:25:13.587-07:005 Signs She's Made For You<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-wkQ_ZN_lkDg/T9F53RyH1BI/AAAAAAAAIWw/7OBBEX740MQ/s1600/what-makes-a-good-girlfriend.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 235px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-wkQ_ZN_lkDg/T9F53RyH1BI/AAAAAAAAIWw/7OBBEX740MQ/s400/what-makes-a-good-girlfriend.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5751512189702231058" border="0" /></a><br />At some point in every man's life, there comes a time when it’s time to find a good woman and settle down with her. It can often be hard to know if a girl is "right" for you, so here’s a list of 5 things to look for in a girl that could mean she’s the one to hang on to.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />1. She's trustworthy</span><br />You don't have to think twice about opening up about personal matters and telling her intimate details about your life. She does what she says she's going to do, doesn't flake out, and she's proven that she will always be there for you through good and bad times, no matter what.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />2. She makes you feel special</span><br />She makes you feel special and cared for by doing thoughtful, little things like holding your hand when you are out in public, telling you she loves you, hugging you, and listening to you, especially when you need her support. She also does special things for you like leaving you sweet love notes when you least expect it and taking you for impromptu dates to places you enjoy.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />3. She makes you a better man</span><br />She knows you inside out and helps you bring out the best version of yourself. She's a <a style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);" href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2009/02/meeting-single-women.html">great girlfriend</a> who motivates you to achieve your dreams, talks about your potential, and inspires you to become the best man you can ever be.<br /><br style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />4. You have great chemistry together</span><br />She is on your mind at all times and you can stare at one another and not say anything for hours. The two of you can laugh together and you share basic interests. You find yourself talking about her a lot and you feel alive and yet content when she is with you.<br /><br /><br style="font-weight: bold;"> <span style="font-weight: bold;">5. She loves you for who you are</span><br />Although there may be things about you that irritates her in everyday life, she loves you, plain and simple and doesn't want to change the essence of who you are. You can talk with her and feel like she isn’t judging you and you never have to try to impress her because you’ve already done that by just being you.<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Interested on the other side of the coin? </span><span style="font-style: italic;">Check out our article on</span><span style="font-style: italic;"> </span><a style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51); font-style: italic;" href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2011/02/troubled-relationship.html">The Top 10 Signs You're With the Wrong Woman</a>.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288698340935124604.post-87088595769646346022012-05-28T17:39:00.000-07:002013-10-14T20:25:13.680-07:005 Signs She Wants To Be More Than Friends<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-wNgNuri9uas/T-04F036ADI/AAAAAAAAIgo/aU4bKkTW-zs/s1600/female-friend-to-girlfriend%2B%25288%2529.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 250px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-wNgNuri9uas/T-04F036ADI/AAAAAAAAIgo/aU4bKkTW-zs/s400/female-friend-to-girlfriend%2B%25288%2529.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5759321171220365362" border="0" /></a><br />So after a night of hanging out with one of your female friends, you started getting this nagging feeling that something's different. Has she started looking at and treating you differently, as if she's sizing you up? Have the things you both used to joke about, such as her physical flaws, become a sensitive subject for her? Has she started wearing a backless blouse and pulling out the 4-inch stilettos just to meet you for coffee?<br /><br />The reason why she is now treating you less as a friend is because she is starting to see you more as a potential mate. Here are 5 signs that she wants to be more than just friends with you.<br /><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">1. She's jealous of other women you talk to</span><br />If you are dating other women, most of the time she is cool with it, but suddenly she is being critical of them and sees them as some type of competition. So if you notice her getting an upset look on her face or steaming just because you're joking around with other women, you can be sure that she wants to <a style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);" href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2009/03/friends-relationship.html">become more than a friend</a>.<br /><br style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />2. She hangs on your every word</span><br />No matter what you are talking about, she'll be sitting at the edge of her seat, looking into your eyes longer and will be interested in what you have to say, even if it is about a topic she has no interest in. If she hangs on your every word that's a good indication she wants more attention from you and to give you more.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />3. She no longer talks about other guys in front of you</span><br />If she suddenly stops talking about the guys she meets and dates, there's a good chance she's keeping herself available for you. <span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><br /><br />4. She makes excuses to hang out alone with you</span><br />If a woman is interested in you, she'll make an effort to have alone time with you. She will ask you to hang out and will isolate both of you from other people. For example, if you are at a party, she may suggest sitting out front where there are less people around.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />5. She starts wearing more makeup and dresses better</span><span style="font-weight: bold;"> around you</span><br />If you come over to watch a movie and you notice that her appearance is getting sexier by the minute and you're wondering what's the occasion, the truth is she wants you to take notice of her beauty and see her in a different light.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288698340935124604.post-67428846296585015732012-05-27T13:38:00.000-07:002013-10-14T20:25:13.780-07:008 Signs Your Relationship Is Over<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ugcVXP0Zk48/T8NopXp1MuI/AAAAAAAAIS4/ZCVDBf_haIw/s1600/signs-your-relationship-is-over.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 232px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ugcVXP0Zk48/T8NopXp1MuI/AAAAAAAAIS4/ZCVDBf_haIw/s400/signs-your-relationship-is-over.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5747552609388278498" border="0" /></a><br />Relationships can be very complex. They tend to start off fun and exciting; however, as time passes, your differences might become more serious and the relationship could take a turn for the worse. If you have the slightest doubt that your relationship is in trouble, these 8 signs should help you figure out if it's time to cut your losses and avoid wasting any more time in a dead-end relationship.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />1. You often think about your life without her</span><br />If you find yourself constantly daydreaming about a bachelor's life, romanticizing past relationships, and thinking about <a style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);" href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2009/09/meeting-new-women_11.html">meeting new women</a>, these are all signs that your current relationship is doomed.<span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><br /><br />2. Neither of you can leave the past in the past</span><br />It's a common deal-breaker in relationships to keep bringing up past issues during arguments to use as ammunition against your other half. If you can't learn to forgive and forget – or your partner can't learn to forgive and forget a mistake that you have made – then it might be time to cut all ties and start fresh.<br /><br style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />3. You don't communicate anymore<br /></span><span>When you first started dating, the two of you talked about everything. Now, however, you can’t even be bothered to text, let alone call her and you've even started ignoring her attempts to contact you.</span><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />4. Sexual relations have stopped<br /></span></span><span><span>Does your woman have no interest in having sex with you anymore? Does she always tell you that she's not in the mood or that she's tired or had a long day? If you can't remember the last time you got busy between the sheets, it’s usually an indication that the spark has gone and it’s time to move on to greener pastures.</span></span><span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><br />5. You argue all the time</span><br /></span></span><span><span>Sure, some amount of arguing is normal in relationships, but if you are constantly picking fights with one another and arguing and has become the only interaction the two of you have, it's time to move on.<br /></span></span><span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />6. There's a lack of effort</span><br /></span></span><span><span>When you first met, you pulled out all the romantic stops. You loved to surprise her with cute love notes all the time, home-cooked dinner nights and picnics on the beach. Now, all you see are her bad qualities, you can’t even be bothered to arrange a date to keep the passion alive and you're actually happier just sitting at home watching TV by yourself.</span></span><span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><br /><br />7. The two of you spend more time with friends than each other<br /></span></span><span><span>In a relationship, it's normal to spend time with your friends, but, if you see your friends more than you see each other, your relationship is in danger.<br /></span></span><span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />8. There's no more talk about the future</span><br /></span></span><span><span>The two of you have started using “I” instead of “we” and neither of you are willing to talk about future plans together.</span></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288698340935124604.post-56066844947501316442012-05-02T15:10:00.000-07:002013-10-14T20:25:13.889-07:004 Reasons Why Women Fear Intimacy<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-TIbR9b5or5o/T6GoKhmu_WI/AAAAAAAAINU/t5p08hdyhb8/s1600/fear-of-intimacy-in-women.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 240px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-TIbR9b5or5o/T6GoKhmu_WI/AAAAAAAAINU/t5p08hdyhb8/s400/fear-of-intimacy-in-women.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5738052299019713890" border="0" /></a><br />Although almost everyone brings some emotional baggage to a new relationship; however, one of the most common though least talked-about issues is a woman's fear of intimacy. If you believe despite having an otherwise satisfying relationship, your girlfriend is somewhat apprehensive about coming close to you, here are four reasons why women fear of intimacy.<span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><br /><br />1. She has a poor body image</span><br />Every woman has an issue with some part of her body, such as her stomach, butt, wide hips or breasts; however, she may feel victimized by her own body and think that you will judge her imperfect body as harshly as she does. If she is self-conscious about certain body parts, and you happen to love them, tell her so often. Eventually, she'll feel less self-conscious and will let you take a closer look.<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><br />2. She's inexperienced</span><span style="font-weight: bold;"> in the bedroom</span><br />Although many of today's women have enough experience to hold their own in the bedroom, there are still some women who don't have much or any experience when it comes to lovemaking. Even if she's not a virgin (yes, they do still exist), she may have only had one partner or a couple of short-lived relationships and the thought of being with someone completely new may scare her. Whatever the case, <a style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);" href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2009/09/female-libido-increase.html">awaken her sexuality</a> slowly and do all the sensual things way before you even think about engaging in the ultimate act of love.<span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><br /><br />3. She suffers from a broken heart</span><br />A woman could also be hesitant to give her heart away if it has recently been broken. Intimacy is synonymous with pain, and if her last boyfriend didn't treat her properly or cheated on her, she's probably in self-protect mode and only a great guy who she feels is trustworthy and not out to hurt her will be able to snap her out of it.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />4. She has a traumatic past</span><br />Past dysfunctional relationships and romantic disasters may have also contributed to her lack of confidence and intimacy. An inability to open up may also stem from deeper, more serious wounds. For instance, a victim of domestic violence or sexual abuse may experience an aversion to closeness with men that is difficult to overcome. Under such circumstances, you need to check your sexual advances and wait for girlfriend to heal herself before she can be comfortable with you in an intimate setting.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288698340935124604.post-46775408027309016172012-05-02T13:29:00.000-07:002013-10-14T20:25:13.986-07:005 Signs Of A Needy Woman<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-6CNuuhHZ8d8/T6yUrna8pyI/AAAAAAAAIRE/oX9tRsYB0cc/s1600/signs-of-a-needy-woman.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 265px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-6CNuuhHZ8d8/T6yUrna8pyI/AAAAAAAAIRE/oX9tRsYB0cc/s400/signs-of-a-needy-woman.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5741127102027835170" border="0" /></a><br />A needy woman can be among the most frustrating aspects of a man’s romantic life. The problem is, a lot of chicks have no clue when they're acting like the human version of Velcro. Whether her needy behavior is subtle or overtly obvious, it can cause a lot of unnecessary and exhausting drama and put a major strain on your relationship. Below are five signs that will help you recognize whether or not your dating a needy woman.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />1. She wants to stay in touch all the time</span><br />A needy woman will blow up your phone with a gazillion calls and text messages along with excessive emails. She also expects you to call and text her multiple times a day. She needs to know where you're going at all times and will begin to feel restless and angry if you are late contacting her.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />2. She wants your attention all the time</span><br />A needy woman feels like she deserves your attention at all times, even if your busy talking to someone else, working on something or just relaxing by yourself. She demands to be by your side as often as possible and hand-holding and nonstop body contact is mandatory. She's a <a style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);" href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2011/03/controlling-girlfriend-signs.html">controlling woman </a>who feels as if she owns you and discourages you from spending time with your friends.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />3. She thinks you don't love her as much as she loves you</span><br />A needy woman demands to analyze everything about your relationship and thinks that constantly bringing up problems in the relationship will make you a better man. She'll tell you that she feels like she's the only one trying to hold the relationship together, and if she doesn't see you wearing the shirt she bought you three months ago, she thinks that you don't care about her anymore.<br /><br style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />4. She's constantly worried about being dumped</span><br />If you forget to say "I love you" at the end of a conversation, she thinks the relationship is coming to an end. Due to previous disappointments and painful experiences with men, she is a psychologically unstable individual who needs constant reassurance that you are still there and haven't dumped her.<br /><br style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />5. She has no life of her own</span><br />She's afraid to have her own interests, always glues herself to you and follows you around all the time instead of doing her own thing. She wants to spend every bit of her free time with you and wears out her welcome rather quickly.<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Interested in the other side of the coin? Check out our article on </span><a style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);" href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2010/04/being-needy.html"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="font-style: italic;">The 5 Signs You're Being Needy</span></span></a><span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);">.</span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288698340935124604.post-36080685753628209892012-05-01T17:28:00.000-07:002013-10-14T20:25:14.084-07:005 Lies Women Tell<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-wPEAIxsLStQ/T6RaTVjk06I/AAAAAAAAIQA/QaAb-fT3SGE/s1600/why-women-lie.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 224px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-wPEAIxsLStQ/T6RaTVjk06I/AAAAAAAAIQA/QaAb-fT3SGE/s400/why-women-lie.jpg" alt="Why Women Lie" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5738811113427227554" border="0" /></a><br />Make no mistake about it, gentlemen; all women lie in certain situations and your girlfriend is no exception. Sometimes she's only telling half-truths to keep the peace. Sometimes her motives are to protect her own feelings or to cover her tracks. Whatever the case, certain lies occur much more frequently than others. Here are five lies women commonly tell men.<br /><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">1. "It doesn't matter how much you make."</span><br />It <em>does</em> matter how much you make. People <em>do</em> have to make a living, and they need to have some sort of means of support. Women love the feeling of being taken care of, and they want a guy who is financially stable and independent.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />2. "I'm not mad at you."</span><br />This lie is one of the most frequently used in relationships, and even if she pretends that she doesn't care, her eye rolling and passive-aggressive behavior are dead giveaways that she's angry with you. A woman expects you to magically predict when she doesn’t like something you've done, even if she’s hiding it. So, unless you’re a mind reader, you’ll have to <a style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);" href="http://datingrelationship-advice.blogspot.com/2009/10/listen-to-girlfriend.html">listen to your woman</a> and get her to actually <em></em> talk about what’s bothering her.<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><br />3. "I wouldn't change anything about you."</span><br />Although she puts up with you day in and day out, do you really think there is nothing about you that she wouldn't change? Soon enough the truth will come out and she'll be re-sketching better versions of you.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />4. </span><strong><span style="font-weight: bold;">“I’ve slept with X number of guys.”</span><br /></strong>The reason a woman will omit a few escapades from her history is because she is ever fearful of being seen as “easy.” She wants you to make her feel confident that your opinion of her doesn’t lie with her sexual history—and that no matter how many guys she has been with in the past, she's still pure in your eyes.<br /><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">5. "I love sports too."</span><br />Granted, some women <em>do</em> actually enjoy sports, but more than likely, she's making a desperate attempt to gain your attention and connect on with you on a “guy level. Chances are if you ask her any details about stats or players, she'll come up short.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0