Using Condoms

If you refuse to wear a condom, you can expect to have your services declined. Condoms are not sexy, but accidents can occur without them. Always use good quality condoms and learn how to effortlessly put one on by practicing on your own, not during the heat of the moment. You could end up with sexually transmitted diseases or even worse dealing with unwanted babies from having relations with women who trap men with pregnancies if you refuse to be smart. So don’t argue when she asks you to wear a condom.

Keep in mind that condom breaks do occur, and when they do it can cause a lot of anxiety. If the condom breaks, remain calm, take a breath and relax. That will make it easier for you to make ration decisions. If ejaculation has occurred, pull out carefully and shower or wash your genital area thoroughly with soap and warm water. If the condom breaks during having sex and before ejaculation, stop immediately, pull out and apply a new condom.

This is not a guarantee that you will both be safe, but it will help increase your chances of avoiding a mishap. Avoid wearing two condoms at once because the friction can weaken the condom. Use water based lubricants to decrease friction that may weaken the condom, but never use oil based lubricants as this can weaken the condom. And remember, never reuse a condom.

Turning Women Off With Body Odor

It's perfectly acceptable to have body odor at the gym where everyone sweats heavily; however, allowing your date to experience something this grotesque before she's ready can have devastating consequences.

Body odor is a combination of bacteria and sweat. While sweat is actually odorless, it is bacteria that live off perspiration on our body, creating the bad smell. One of the reasons some men smell more might be because they have higher testosterone levels and are usually more physical than women. Then again, some guys stink simply by virtue of poor hygiene wearing clothes that haven't been washed for a while.

There are plenty of ways to downgrade your B.O. Shower at least once a day with a deodorant soap in order to get rid of dead skin cells and scrub areas that get especially sweaty (like your armpits, crotch, and butt). A good antiperspirant or deodorant containing aluminum or zinc will clog sweat glands, so bacteria have nothing to interact with. Furthermore, regularly washing your clothes and cutting down on coffee, cola, chocolate, and other types of caffeine will reduce B.O.

It doesn’t cost anything to take a bath and to make an effort to look and smell nice. Remember, body odor is an instant turn off and your date will assume that this is how you are all the time, even if you are just having a bad day.So if you want positive attention from women and eventual sex, keep yourself clean.

The Art of Kissing

Many women put a lot of stock in a man’s kissing ability. Some women even claim that a first kiss is a solid early indicator of how the relationship turn out. It ranges from the light pecks that convey a simple feeling of respect and appreciation to the passionate French kiss.

The first step to kissing is known as finding her comfort level. Make sure she is ready for a kiss and do not start anything until she is comfortable. The timing of the first kiss is essential and is the first step to increasing her desire for you. Wait until she’s paying attention before you lean in for the kiss or things could get really awkward and remember to keep your hands to yourself unless she says otherwise.

An important factor in kissing is your breath. Trust me, you don't want to be turning women off with bad breath. Keep it fresh and brush your teeth regularly, floss, and use alcohol-free mouthwash. Don’t go overboard with breath fresheners, but do make sure that the smell and taste of your mouth isn’t offensive in any way.

Remember to keep the drool under control and make sure to wipe your nose beforehand. Also, if you have a really bad breath problem, get it sorted out you really need to get it sorted out or you may never be kissed again.

Top 5 Body Turnoffs

Lots of women let themselves go once they're in a relationship, but men are just as bad. Keeping yourself up and maintaining sexual attractiveness is very important, but as a relationship wears on, laziness and complacency can begin to creep in. If you think she will love you 'til the day you die no matter what you look like, think again.

Although women are usually far more tolerant, they still appreciate guys who take care of themselves to ensure they look good not only for themselves, but also for them. Here are 5 male body blunders women find most offensive and if you have them, you'd better get to work to get rid of them!


1. Man boobs
This is the area she most looks at when she looks at you're naked. A man's chest is one of a woman's favorite places to rest her head, along with nibbling on your nipples and caressing you. A man’s chest is a treasured place for women, so having a posh pair of man boobs is a major turn-off. Invest in some weights and learn to use them properly. With some focused attention, you can easily transform your man boobs into pecs she'll love.


2. Excessive pubic hair
Pubic hair needs to be trimmed no matter what. If you consider that having less hair in other places makes foreplay much easier for her, you may realize you have been missing out. A great way to spoil perfectly good foreplay is for her to get a hair stuck in her mouth.


3. Hairy back
A nice, smooth back will get you places a good personality and a nice hair won’t. If you have a hairy back, it’s not your fault that you have hairy genes, but you would probably get more attention without the hair. There are some women out there that do love hairy backs, but on a whole, hairy backs are a big reason why lots of men don’t get laid. Laser hair-removal clinics are the number one choice to try. Waxing is a suitable alternative, but you must maintain it. Don’t shave it, as it will grow back quickly.


4. Beer belly
Your stomach is predominantly what a woman sees when she looks at you. The stomach is also the main source of the excess weight on a man, so if you have a saggy, protruding pot belly, get rid of it! You don’t need abs of steel, but you do need to start doing sets of crunches and of course, cut back on the beer. You will notice her delight and her increased interest in touching the new and improved you when she sees the results of your effort.


5. Bad teeth
Broken and stained teeth drastically change your appearance and will cause you to lose you more women than you’ll ever know. Get your teeth cleaned regularly by a dentist and invest in home whitening kits. If you have missing or broken teeth, get them fixed. Consider it an investment in your sex life.

Being attractive can be hard work for some people, but on the whole a little bit of effort goes a long way for most of us. While your lover might insist she loves you just the way you are, it doesn’t mean you can’t improve yourself a little. Whatever you do, do it just as much for yourself as for her. It won’t go unnoticed.

Check out our other grooming articles, like the 5 Grooming Mistakes Men Make and Top 10: What Makes a Man Attractive.

5 Traits of a Gentleman

Being a gentleman is important when you are in the company of a lady. Being a gentleman when you are on a date means showing a woman that you are attentive, respectful and well-mannered. We should all strive to be gentlemen at all times; however, many men today shy away from it, attempting to respect a woman’s space and equality. Here are some tips that can show you how to be a true gentleman and possibly double your dating.


1. A gentleman holds the door for a woman
Holding the door for woman makes her feel respected and reflects well on you as a person. Do not race your date to get to the door first as this appears insincere.


2. A gentleman pulls a chair out for a woman
You should ensure that your date sits down before you do. Doing such is a mark of respect, good manners and shows that you care about making her feel comfortable.


3. A gentleman turns his phone off during the date.
When you are on a date, your date should be made to feel like she is the most important person in the world to you at that moment. One of the rudest things you can do is to take a phone call in the middle of your date. Answering your phone on a date means that your date cannot interact in the conversation and is left sitting uncomfortable, waiting for you to finish. Remember to switch your phone off and reply to any missed calls after the date is over.


4. A gentleman avoids using profanity
You should focus on being articulate and being capable of expressing yourself without cursing. Avoiding profanity in your conversations on dates shows that you have high standards for yourself, you respect people around you and indicates that you are intelligent. On the same note, avoid using overly long words that are difficult to understand and can make you look foolish.


5. A gentleman walks his date to her doorstep
Walking a lady to her doorstep is an extremely important component of gentlemanly conduct at the end of the date. A woman will feel safer at the end of the evening if she knows she will be accompanied right to her front door; however, never force anything or expect anything to happen--it is her prerogative to decide whether anything happens at the doorstep.

What Makes A Woman "Wife Material"

Most of us guys would like to settle down and find a wife one day. But before you do, here are some characteristics to look for in a woman to determine if she's wife material.

The most important characteristic is love. Love is having respect for each other--you can't live without each other, you laugh and dream together and prepare for a future together. It's important that she makes you feel happy inside and vice-versa and you know in your heart that you will be there for each other emotionally, physically and sexually. Aim for the type that can be a Jekyll and Hyde --that is, a woman who can easily transform from the freak in bed to the lady in the street that mom likes!

The woman who will be your future wife must be someone who you can be honest with and will be honest with you all the time. Without complete transparency in the relationship, there is ground for mistrust, and you don't want that. If you're going to spend the rest of your life with a woman, you both should be in agreement on some major issues of belief, most specifically religion and other moral stances and be in line with each other on issues of children, religion and family.

Both of you should be able to get along very well and have personalities that click well. She has to have a good sense of humor, not be totally indecisive, be able to take a joke every now and then and be at somewhat talkative. She doesn't have to look as good as superstar Halle Berry or be really book-smart with a college degree, but you do want to marry a woman who thinks logically, and makes intelligent decisions when it comes to life, in things like personal finance, and career advancement.

Avoid women with emotional baggage and never marry a woman with cruel intentions toward any one in the world. A kind-hearted woman would be respectful to others in general, and be out to do good in the world. Basically, she must have respect for herself and makes you want to be better man.

Complimenting Women

Women love compliments, but if you make too many or too big a compliment, most women won't believe you and will wonder what you are trying to sell them.

Complimenting a woman is usually used by guys as a type of flattery. Women who have had enough experience with men trying to pick them up can spot this quickly, and insincerity and having a hidden agenda is the reason women find compliments repulsive. To give a compliment the right way, the most important thing to remember is not what you say, but how you say it--what you can observe about her and the setting she is in.

Compliment a woman on her character rather than her appearance and absolutely NO sexual content with your compliments--at least not until you have been physical with her. Share your tastes and opinions with her and instead of seeming like you're trying to impress her with a compliment, you'll give off the feeling that you enjoy and admire her as a person.

Give compliments with a confident voice tone and a smile on your face and never underestimate the importance of eye contact. Don't overdue it with the tone of your voice, but say it without worrying if she will accept it or not. What you can observe about her and what you can actually get curious about will supply you with the best words to use. How you deliver those words will send a strong message about how you feel about yourself, and will enhance the actual power of your words.