Dating Married Women

So you’ve pulled out all your best moves and have made progress with the beautiful woman been dating. When you finally get to the point when you feel your relationship is going to the next level, she smiles and says: "I'm married." That information would have been nice to have known at the beginning of the relationship.

Most married women who cheat on their husbands claim that they do it because their husband has either been unfaithful, controlling since they've been married or use the excuse that she just hasn't been happy in years. While some of these statements may be true, most married women often have affairs due to purely selfish desire and sheer boredom.

In the very beginning of this type of relationship, you will see a lot of your new lover. Secret dates will be established and the excitement along with some short term dramatic and passionate sex will make you feel alive. While this may sound good for a little while, you have to realize that when you're dating a married woman, you are not a couple-- so don't fool yourself. Sure you may act like a couple when you are together, but you aren't.

At some point you'll get tired of having to sneak a kiss or a hug, ducking and dodging, having to meet somewhere secretly to be together and spending all your money on a woman who's not yours and who still sleeps with her husband. This type of manipulative woman will constantly tell you lies and fill your head with promises that she'll leave her husband when the time is right so the two of you can get married and "live happily ever after." However, in most cases, that time will never come.

So, what should you do if you find yourself approached with this situation? You should move on with your life and find a woman who is not already taken. Never fool yourself here--if you're looking for a strong, committed relationship, dating a married woman is a complete waste of time.

Consider the impact having an affair with a married person will have on your self-image. Besides wrecking other people's lives, being the "other man" will sap your dignity and self-worth despite what approach you may take. If you really value and understand yourself and you truly believe that there are some single, high-quality women out there, why would you waste your time dating a woman who's already taken?

Women Who Trap Men Into Pregnancy

What happens when you are stuck in a bad relationship with a woman and you're on the verge of breaking up with her, but she's willing to whatever it takes to keep you in her life and make sure you take care of her --even getting pregnant on purpose?

Everybody knows that unless a woman decides to artificially inseminate herself, conceiving a child takes is a two person act and if you decide to have unprotected sex with a woman, then you should be man enough to accept the consequences. However, there are some desperate women out there who feel that their relationship is so bad that they need to trap the man and get pregnant just so he'll stay with her and hopefully marry her.

These women insist on having unprotected sex and usually use lines like "I can't feel it with the condom on--just take it off" and attempt to use guilt trips on you, i.e., "If you love me, why do you need a condom?" These women will intentionally stop using their birth control without the man knowing and will even go as far as tampering with condoms prior to intercourse, i.e., putting a pin through their boyfriend's condom package without the guy ever suspecting it.

These manipulative women who perform these awful acts of immaturity have tunnel vision for their lives and in a way feel that they have to "fight for their man." This type of woman wants the man she's with to be with her for the rest of her life only because she doesn't think it's possible to find someone else to love her. They think that being with a man is the key to their happiness, suffer with low self esteem, think very poorly of themselves and feel that "If you have a baby with him, he is yours forever."

The main reason why these women are willing to get pregnant on purpose in order to keep a man is how they were raised thinking about life, men, and marriage. These women are raised to be gold diggers and to depend on men as much as possible--not in how to take care of and support themselves. Many of them have been taught that when they get pregnant by a guy, he is suppose to take care of her and the baby and that even if he goes off and dates another woman, he would eventually always have to come back to her. They fail to realize that a child is not going to fix it as it is well-known that a great percentage of men who become daddies don't marry their "Baby's Mamas."

Ensure that you utilize your own protection and keep it on your person until it's time to utilize it. Avoid accepting condoms from a woman (especially a desperate one) and never, ever take her word that she's on birth control. A woman who insists on having unprotected sex prior to marriage is usually one to avoid.

If you don't want to continue the relationship with her now, think about how you'll always have a bond with her for the rest of her life by sharing a child together. If you want to avoid the fighting, drama and chaos that comes with dealing with a baby's mama, it would be wise to end all sexual relations with a woman that you're ready to break up with any way and move on while you still can without any attachments!

Buying Lingerie For Your Girlfriend

Many women love receiving lingerie from the man in their life, and most men love giving it as a gift. The appeal of the gift comes from a woman feeling sexy in something her man bought her, and the man benefiting from the gift by making his woman feel special; however, buying lingerie for her can be tricky.

You have to realize that not all lingerie is romantic, for example, something like, say, crotchless panties and baby doll tops could be seen as slutty and more of a gift for you takes the romance right out of it. When it comes to this gift, you have to think sensuous and you need to know what sort of lingerie your your woman would like.

Take a look at the lingerie she already owns and see if she wears lacy thongs, camis and baby dolls or if she tends to stick with silk, satin and lace robes, slip dresses and simple bra tops with matching panties. Remember that part of your woman feeling sexy is feeling comfortable. If the item you buy her is too tight, falls off of her or is made of cheap material that irritates her skin, it defeats the purpose. If you don’t know her size, include the gift receipt so that she can exchange it.

When she's wearing the lingerie you selected for her, tell her how beautiful you think she is and how good she looks in it. Expressing how much you like her body in her new items may encourage her to be happier with her self image, awaken her sexuality and could be even more fun for you when she wears them!

The Bald Look

Women of all ages have been shifting their idea of what makes a man hot, and a lot of them will admit that bald is sexy. Women everywhere have learned that hair doesn't make the man. In fact, some hairstyles on men can be off putting. And yes, women would prefer that a man embrace his hair loss issues rather than hide behind a horrible comb over, cheap toupee or poorly placed plugs.

Baldness, when embraced rather than artificially covered up, promotes an aura of rugged masculinity and confidence. To most women, male confidence is hot regardless of the amount of hair a guy has or doesn't have. The majority of women do not care if you are bald and actually feel that a bald man is more free-spirited and low maintenance. Most women would probably choose a bald man with self-confidence over a Fabio with self-esteem issues who clutters the medicine cabinet with male beauty products.

Women have preferences just like men, so let's face it--not all women will love you as a bald man. The bald look is going to look good on some guys and downright goofy on others. On the other hand, any woman who is focused on your hair is ignoring your better qualities anyway.

Who Should Pay on a Date?

You ask a woman out, you pay. That’s how it goes. But what happens when you've taken a woman out on several expensive dates at some really nice places and she hasn’t once even offered to put a dime into the evenings?

Not so long ago, the answer to the "who should pay?" question was a fairly easy one, but that's not the case anymore. These days, men should think critically about this and question it. The ideal dating scenario consists of both sides working together to make things works. Although with the traditional etiquette of a gentleman, guys have always been taught that it's the right thing to do, there does come a time when the financial load should be shared.

While many women feel that they should never pay for a date until they're in a committed relationship, it doesn't hurt for a woman to at least offer to pick up the tab or even offer to help pay the tab every now and then.

First couple of dates aside, though, men shouldn't expect to pay for every date during the first couple of months. If she initiates the date, allowing her to pay when shows that she has respect to you and it makes a statement of equality for her. If you've been together for a while and she just continues to push that check across the table for you to take care of, that should be your sign that she's just using you.

Being a Challenge to Women

While most women will admit that they like a man who is a challenge, most guys will ignore this and make mistakes that run women off, i.e., bombarding her with phone calls and text messages, making themselves too available, being overly nice and agreeable ( a wuss) and expressing their feelings early on.

When a man is too available and says yes all the time, there is a good chance a woman won’t like it and see it as a sign of weakness or lack of confidence. If a woman thinks she has you figured out and can get you too easily, she will get bored. By learning to keep mystery in your dating, you'll create a challenge for women and really engage their mind's and emotions.

Creating a challenge for a woman means making yourself important in her eyes by not being too accessible and keeping her waiting--but not too long, or someone else might beat you to her! Feed her a little bit, but keep her curiosity growing and her interest in you will do the same. By doing that you will always keep a woman guessing which is good, because you will always be on her mind.

Have you ever heard the expression about absence making the heart grow fonder? Well, it's true. You have to give her a chance to miss you, and the anticipation alone of meeting you again will make the next meeting between the two of you that much more exciting.

So let her wonder where you are, whom you're with and where you're going, and she will hope to cross paths with you more often than you think. Remember the laws of attraction. Women don't feel attraction for men that are predictable--they feel attraction for men who are a challenge.

5 Signs of a Desperate Woman

Women have a desire to be loved and cared for, yet there are some things that desperate women do that can actually mess up their dating lives and cause men to become distant and aloof. Here's a list of 5 warning signs to help you determine if a woman is desperate for a date or relationship.


1. She wants everything you want
At first, having a woman who wants whatever you want, thinks whatever you think seems great. Soon enough, you'll get tired of dating someone without opinions, without interests and without an identity.


2. She has no particular type of guy
A desperate woman is not looking for that certain someone so much as she's looking for that certain anyone. She's a persistent serial dater and her past is a continuous series of relationships--and all of her boyfriends are very different from each other.


3. She's on a self-imposed timeline
A desperate woman wants to get married as soon as possible and will have everything planned for the sucker that falls into her trap. After just a couple of dates, she'll want you to meet her parents, and after a few more weeks, she'll be telling "I love you." The next week, she'll be picking out the color of her bridesmaids’ dresses and the names of her future children.


4. She's constantly fishing for compliments
The desperate woman has emotional baggage, low self-esteem, a poor self-image and needs to constantly hear how great she is and be assured of things. It won't take long for you to get tired of constantly stroking her ego.


5. She will overly call, email, and text you
The desperate woman makes the fatal mistake of overly calling, emailing or sending you text messages early in a relationship, even when you haven't returned any of her messages. What these women don't realize is that guys find it annoying when they're having their phone blown up with excessive calls, text messages and emails more than several times a day.